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pesto8000:

I watched a movie called Dysfunctional Friends this morning. A comedy starring nearly every black comedian in Hollywood. I watched the movie and I laughed, maybe shed a few petty tears, and did a lot of thinking. The character Ebony really stood out to me. She has a 50 foot wall built up, she’s boxed in, she rather talk about other peoples problems than her own, she plays the crazy loud one in the group, and she lashes out at random…only because she has so much she wants to get out, but is to afraid to. - Yeeaahhh she stood out to me ALOT… Just like The character Trenese reminded me of my friend Star, determined but some reason wants zero help from anyone. Or How Brett reminds me of my good buddy Corey, Gary reminds me of Tyrell, Jamal is Albert, Lisa is Mel, Ms. Stevens is Cassandra, Dennis is Isaiah, Brett is Anthony, and I even found a correlation for my friend Keyona…she’s Storm Lol. There’s so many other people that came to mind and for different reasons, but these people stood out the most. 

It left me thinking….I’ve always said I was dysfunctional. I’m just wired differently, and u either learn to deal with me or not at all. Maybe all my friends are too. Maybe were just one big ass dysfunctional group! But it works. We work. We know the dysfunctions of each other, how to handle them, what to ignore, what to take serious, how to respond, and what is and what isn’t important at the time. Dysfunction is how we operate….dysfunction is the only way we operate. It’s sad to say that, and if U think about it, u shouldn’t be proud to say that. But in recent years I’ve realized…..dysfunction works if love is there. 

In any case….maybe I’m just in one big Dramedy. It’s Dramedy because DESPITE there being drama, there are so many good times that come with it. So many outcomes that leave us laughing. Arguments that turn into jokes, fights that turn into hugs, fall outs that turn into interventions, and tears that turn into smiles. 

I love my dysfunctional ass friends. All of them. Even if they hate me! Lmaooo! There’s a silver lining in everything, everyone, and in every situation. 

Some situations may just need to be let go. And that’s why I love this quote so !

pesto8000:

I watched a movie called Dysfunctional Friends this morning. A comedy starring nearly every black comedian in Hollywood. I watched the movie and I laughed, maybe shed a few petty tears, and did a lot of thinking. The character Ebony really stood out to me. She has a 50 foot wall built up, she’s boxed in, she rather talk about other peoples problems than her own, she plays the crazy loud one in the group, and she lashes out at random…only because she has so much she wants to get out, but is to afraid to. - Yeeaahhh she stood out to me ALOT… Just like The character Trenese reminded me of my friend Star, determined but some reason wants zero help from anyone. Or How Brett reminds me of my good buddy Corey, Gary reminds me of Tyrell, Jamal is Albert, Lisa is Mel, Ms. Stevens is Cassandra, Dennis is Isaiah, Brett is Anthony, and I even found a correlation for my friend Keyona…she’s Storm Lol. There’s so many other people that came to mind and for different reasons, but these people stood out the most.

It left me thinking….I’ve always said I was dysfunctional. I’m just wired differently, and u either learn to deal with me or not at all. Maybe all my friends are too. Maybe were just one big ass dysfunctional group! But it works. We work. We know the dysfunctions of each other, how to handle them, what to ignore, what to take serious, how to respond, and what is and what isn’t important at the time. Dysfunction is how we operate….dysfunction is the only way we operate. It’s sad to say that, and if U think about it, u shouldn’t be proud to say that. But in recent years I’ve realized…..dysfunction works if love is there.

In any case….maybe I’m just in one big Dramedy. It’s Dramedy because DESPITE there being drama, there are so many good times that come with it. So many outcomes that leave us laughing. Arguments that turn into jokes, fights that turn into hugs, fall outs that turn into interventions, and tears that turn into smiles.

I love my dysfunctional ass friends. All of them. Even if they hate me! Lmaooo! There’s a silver lining in everything, everyone, and in every situation.

Some situations may just need to be let go. And that’s why I love this quote so !

Anonymous asked: I feel so useless sitting here. What can I do to help Ferguson??

natnovna:

there’s a bail and legal fund that’s been set up for those who’ve been arrested 

this person is trying to organize a food drive for school kids in ferguson

national moment of silence 2014 (for victims of police brutality) 

share the following: 

videos of what has happened

links to articles

how to make a tear gas mask

livestream link to the peaceful protests

prettyparamore:

For someone like me who has severe depression, anxiety and is suicidal this means so much. there are actually many people out there that think depression can be cured by just “Cheering up!”. The ignorance of some people is just disgusting. This is a mental disorder that people who suffer have no control over. Let Robin Williams be a true testament of people who suffer the most, and do everything in their power to make others laugh and feel happiness, just so they don’t ever have to feel as terrible as we do.

If you can, even if you feel like shit, make it a goal of yours to go out of your way to make someone laugh, or to lend them an ear, or a shoulder to cry on. No matter how I’m feeling, I always try to make my friends laugh or cheer them up, because I want them to feel good and laugh and be happy. Be there for someone, because you NEVER know exactly what someone’s going through or how their suffering and you may have to power to prevent something bad from happening.

this is that Good stuff.

😳 so I’m just sitting here while my co worker is crying on the phone to her husband about needing comfort.


I kinda don’t know what to do right now.

Awkwarrrdd… 😳😳😳

Should I go “get some water” 😳😳